Tuesday, 9 February 2016

That Great Question: What Does A Woman Really Want?

Women are a complex specie. What works for one woman may necessarily not work for another. The reason some men are quick to state that women do not know what they want! Someone once said 'To generalise on women is dangerous. To specialise on them is infinitely worse'.

Well, even though what women want still remains one unanswered question the world over, yet there are a few things every woman would appreciate from her man in their relationship. They are simple and little things, and maybe that is the reason most men do not give as much as a hoot about them. But funny enough, the little things which men consider not too significant play vital roles in keeping relationships in great shape: they are things that really matter! 


The list below would give an insight into what you as a man can never do wrong in your relationship. Pay attention to them...


Woo her as often as you can:
Remember the first few weeks of love where you tried everything you could think of to impress her? Don't let this cool off! But it is a shame this is a little thought that is almost always forgotten by men once they get into a serious relationship. While the first flush of excited love may flicker out for men, it never does for women. Women like to be showered with love and affection, always. Look for ways to brighten her day, and always remember those special days that matter. When you look for ways to make your woman smile, you will inevitably find yourself smiling a lot too.


Make her proud:
Pride may be a shallow trait, but it does have its benefits too. Women love a man who is successful in his own way. Are you proud of what you do every day? If you’re happy with your own life, great chances are your woman will be happy for you too. Be proud of your achievements and she will be proud of you. And when she’s proud of the person you are, she’ll only love you more.

Make her feel good:
Make your woman feel better than the other women around her, she’ll be grateful and will fall more in love with you every day. Make your woman feel like she’s having the best relationship in the world, and you’ll be just the man she would love to be with forever, even if there’s a lot of competition in the air.

Learn to appreciate her:

Learn to be appreciative. Always appreciate your woman, even for the least of her gestures to please you. And remember, as much as the big things in love matter, it is the little things that count most!


Show her your naughty side:
Look for ways to make her laugh now and then. It doesn’t matter if it’s a naughty bedroom trick or a witty humorous prank. Women love seeing a fun side in a serious guy. It keeps the child in you alive, and it will definitely make her more excited to be with you.

Make her feel lucky to have you:
Women always cherish a man who knows how well to take care of his appearance. Always endeavour to look good and dress well, as a rule. Be the man she will be happy to show off to her friends and other guys who try to hit on her. When her friends envy her or comment on how charming you look, your woman can’t help but blush and realise how lucky she is to be with you.


Show her just how much you care:
She wants to be shown you care about her. Pay attention to her needs and interests. Showing care and concern reassures your woman and lets her know that you still pay attention to her and her needs. Do not only lavish her with gifts and money, spend quality time with her too. Remember, it is just not enough to tell her you care, show it too! 

Make yourself lovable by her family and friends:
Do not pass off any opportunity to make her friends and family like you. Women want a man who can not only get along with her friends, but someone who can help her friends have a great time when he’s around. But do not force this, achieve it by being yourself.

Lead a purposeful life:

She wants to be assured you have your plans for the future mapped out and you are working to make your life better. Show her how determined and ambitious you are, and your woman will share your dream and help you climb the mountains in your path. She wants security for her future with you.

Listen when she has something to tell you:

Be a good listener and pay attention to what she feels and says. Do not be the man who knows it all. Show her you care about her opinions.

Be the man she can depend on:

Make constant efforts to carry out whatever favour she wants from you, to the best of your ability. Never leave anything to chance. She wants you to be the man she can trust with her life. Learn to be trustworthy and dependable, it is the easiest way to eliminate fear and helpless frustrations in your romance.

Treat her with respect:

Remember, respect is reciprocal. Treat her the way you will like her to treat you. Do not for any reason put your woman down. Do not rub her imperfections in her face. 

Remember, nothing good comes easy. It is in your hand to build that great relationship, if that really is what you want!